September 08 2008
From the couch!!
Tagged Under : compassion, immaturity, justice, maturity, religion
The first requisite of civilization is that of justice.
Sigmund Freud
I was thinking about justice versus compassion and all that goes into it for society to work and it sounds GREAT. How G-d gave us a heart because he wanted us to use it. BUT, our heads and brains were ALWAYS supposed to lead our hearts. If we base our lives on heart and feeling……what a mess our lives would be. Imagine, ‘I don’t FEEL like going to work.’ ‘My heart tells me I should get to stay home.’ But the whole idea is for the brain to kick in and say, I need to do the right thing, get up, do my work and live up to my responsibilities.
The other cool thing is that compassion can’t exist without justice. You couldn’t possibly know what one is without the other. We are granted compassion on a constant basis when we don’t suffer as we should for the things that we have done. If we ‘deserve’ a speeding ticket when the officer pulls us over but he lets us go with a warning, that doesn’t change that we DESERVED the ticket (not that it has ever happened to me). But we feel grateful because we were spared from the justice we deserved. Compassion cannot exist without justice. But if justice isn’t the rule, then society starts to break.
Often, when we are younger we think that compassion should rule. It sounds nice and peaceful and uptopian. But really, without many speeding tickets, who would obey the rules that are set out for safety? Without penalties, how many would break the law? Even more than now? As people mature, they realize that life requires justice and laws to instill appreciation for compassion. It shows the height of immaturity not to see that……you might say ‘left’ brain immaturity!


